Middle School Newsletter 4.24.2023
A colleague shared this amazing quote with me…
“Speak to your children as if they are the wisest, kindest, most beautiful and magical humans on earth, for what they believe is what they will become.”
I started reflecting on how I speak to my daughter, Finnley. I certainly hope she would say that I make her feel this way, but I can’t be certain she would. I know that she has often told me that I only focus on what she does wrong or what she needs to “fix”. And while I certainly never wanted to intentionally make her feel this way, it really doesn’t matter because this is how I have made her feel.
I wholeheartedly believe that when I am correcting her it is coming from a place of love and care. Clearly though, that is not always the message she is hearing from me. I think my intent sometimes gets lost in the way I speak to her. I stumbled across this simple article that lists 50 ways to speak to your child positively. The article mentions when parents speak positively to their child they are less likely to have to nag at them. I don’t doubt that this is absolutely true but when you are in that moment when your child still hasn’t cleaned their room or finished their homework it is hard to remain positive.
I know that I need to remember that in how I use my words with Finnley so that I am lifting her up. As her mother, the person who loves her more than anyone else, my words should be a constant reminder of what a blessing she is...sass and all! I am going to make sure that everyday I shower with an affirmation that reminds her just how incredible she is while also guiding her to make positive changes and choices in her life.
I tell our students all the time the most powerful tool they have is their words. They can use them to lift someone up or tear them down. I encourage you to have a conversation with your child about how they choose to use their words. And please join me in reminding our children just how much we love them!
Kindly,
Kim
314.645.9600 (607)~kwright@premiercharterschool.org
Summer opportunity for 6th graders…
Sherwood Forest is still accepting youth in 1st-6th grade to participate in a low-cost residential summer camp program. Sherwood Forest's residential program consists of traditional camp activities like canoeing and tie dye, as well as reading, ecology, and social and emotional learning. Program length ranges from 7 to 28 days, depending on camper's age. For more information or to register for camp, reach out to the Camp Director at alexisn@sherwoodforeststl.org or visit https://www.sherwoodforeststl.org/register/.
From the library…
April Reading Challenge!
We have a new reading challenge for April and beyond. Complete the 10 reading tasks and turn the signed form to Mrs. Ramsey in the PCS library by Friday, May 19 to earn a bookmark and.a free book! Happy Reading!
April-May 2023 Reading Challenge
PCS Night at the Ballpark Flyer
Upcoming Dates:
April 24-26- 6th Grade MAP Testing
April 27th- Multicultural Fair
April 28- No School
April 30-May 5- MS Trip to DC
May 3- Board Meeting
May 11- Field Day
May 11- Noon Dismissal
May 12- No School
May 18- PCS Night at the Ballpark
May 24-8th Grade Graduation
May 25- Last Day of School-Noon Dismissal
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Kim Wright M.Ed. LPC, RPT
Middle School Principal
Supporting the curious and empowered learner since 2000
National School of Character